January 08, 2021 14 min read

If you’ve just purchased a sex doll, congratulations are in order! You’ve made a great investment.

A sex doll can provide companionship, sexual satisfaction, even add some unique spice to your relationships. A sex doll doesn’t care about your job, car, looks, or the contents of your wallet. They’re always up for a good time, and will never judge you for your fantasies or your hangups.

Now for the most important thing of all. This is a big investment. You may have even gone into debt to buy your doll. We want to make sure that you get the most out of your investment.

To help you out, we’ve created this ‘user’s guide’. Here, we’ll cover everything you need to know about how to get the most pleasure in your new relationship.

First things first though! If you haven’t made a purchase, check out our sex doll buyer’s guide. It has all the information you need to choose the perfect companion. Get the right doll for your lifestyle and personal preferences, and you’re already off to a great start.

Table of Contents

1. How to Properly Unbox and Assemble A Lifelike Sex Doll
2. Making Love to Your Doll
2.1 Kissing and Touching a Lifelike Sex Doll
2.2 Vaginal Sex with Your Doll
2.3 Anal Sex with Your Doll
2.4 Oral Sex with Your Doll
3. The Basic Process of Fucking a Sex Doll
4. Pro Tips
4.1 Lubricants
4.2 Perfumes and colognes
4.3 Make Your Sex Doll Pretty
4.4 Be Gentle
4.5 Watch Some Hot Porn Videos While Having Sex with Your Sex Doll
4.6 Pose Your Doll Right
5. Best Sex Positions Which Will Leave You Breathless
5.1 Missionary Position
5.2 Doggy Style Position
5.3 Girl On Top
5.4 Bent Over
5.5 Sex Against The Wall
5.6 Spooning
5.7 Two Most Common Oral Doll Sex Positions
6. Final Thoughts

1. How to Properly Unbox and Assemble A Lifelike Sex Doll 

The day has finally arrived! A couple of weeks ago you did your research, you found the girl you’ve seen in your fantasies, and she has finally arrived. You’ve tracked her movement across the globe, from our manufacturing facility to the shipping facility, and now she is on your doorstep.

You can barely contain your excitement when you see the box on your porch. You barely notice the delivery guy, and your hand slightly shakes as you sign for the package. All your thoughts are on the box, and even more, what’s inside of it.

But wait, hold your horses, cowboy! There is still one more important step before you bed your new lover, you must take care to unbox and assemble her properly.

Step 1: Carefully transport the package to a room in your home with lots of floor space.

One thing that surprises many people when they first receive their sex doll is how heavy the package is. Most full-size sex dolls weight between 50 and 70 pounds plus all the packaging weight! Your fully packaged sex doll could possibly weigh up to 80 pounds when she arrives.

If you are disabled, elderly, or live in a 5th-floor walk-up apartment, you should be prepared for how you're going to move this package. A close friend may be a good helper, or you can tip the delivery guy to help you.

A room with a good amount of floor space is a good place to unpack your sex doll as you’ll need to lay her flat on the group beside the box.

Step 2: Open the package along the seams with a boxcutter, knife, etc.

Once the package is placed on the floor in your room of choice, cut the tape along the top edges of the box to open her up. Be careful not to go too deep with the knife as you don’t want to risk cutting your new favorite sex partner. Once you’ve cut the packing tape along the seams the box will open up much like a coffin.

Step 3: Wash your hands!

Now that your new sex doll is ready to be taken out of her box you don’t want to smudge or mark her pristine skin with your dirty hands! Wash your mitts thoroughly before touching the sex doll.

Step 4: Unpack the head of your new sex doll

Resting on the upper thighs of your sex doll will be a soccer ball sized sphere of packing foam, this is the head of your new sex doll. Carefully remove to foam wrapping and take the head of its bag. Put the sex doll head on top of the bag on the floor next to the box. You’ll return to it later once you’ve got the body out.

Tip: You can save the bag to store the head when not in use.

Step 5: Remove any other accessories in the box

Often times accessories will be included in the package like clothing, a closet storage system, and cleaning tools. Remove all of these things from the box and set them aside. After this step, all that should be left in the box is the body of the doll and the blanket that she rests on.

Step 6: Remove the foam from the body of the doll with a pair of scissors. It is very important to be careful during this part.

Step 7: Lift the doll out of the box with the blanket

Wrap your arms around the doll and blanket and lift her out of the box placing her gently on the floor beside it.

Step 8: Attach the head to your new sex doll and put on the wig

Congratulations! You’re done unboxing your sex dolls


FairDolls sex doll unboxing


2. Making Love to Your Doll

Sure jacking off feels great, watching porn, but your doll will multiply the pleasure.

You will "VISUALLY" be able to see this amazing beautiful female body of your dreams.

You will be able to "TOUCH and FEEL" this beautiful body, and it will feel extremely real and soft just like a real woman. Not just outside, but the inside is also realistically textured like a real women vaginal/anal/oral canal as well.

You will be able to "SMELL" this beautiful body with the addition of your favorite perfume.

You can also "TASTE" her with the use of flavored lip balm on her lips or privates.

2.1 Kissing and Touching a Lifelike Sex Doll

 Lifesize sex dolls are made to feel ‘just like the real thing’. They’re soft to the touch and very realistic. Facial features and body parts are molded from a real woman and then often enhanced to suit your needs. 

Want bigger tits or a firmer ass? They’re made the way you like them!

Kissing can feel very real! The face is soft, you can put your tongue in her mouth and feel hers. A real sex doll’s boobs are soft and round and very squeezable, soft perky nipples with great butts too.

squeeze real doll sexy boobs FairDolls


2.2 Vaginal Sex with Your Doll

This is one of the most common ways for people to enjoy their sex dolls. Every female sex doll we sell comes with a fully functional vagina. For many of our dolls, you have your choice between a removable or fixed vagina. We include the depth of each doll vaginal opening on our website. Be sure to select a doll that can accommodate your size.


All of our dolls are composed of silicon or TPE. Both are extraordinarily realistic feeling. Our vaginas are made for pleasure and designed so that it feels as if you are having sex with a real live human.

The process works just like you would imagine. You position the doll the way you like, then you penetrate the doll and continue as you normally would. The friction and pressure combined feel absolutely amazing.
We are often asked if it is okay for men to finish inside of their dolls. The answer is yes. This is a very common practice, and our dolls were designed for it.

2.3 Anal Sex with Your Doll

So many people fantasize about anal sex. It is normal, healthy, and very pleasurable for many people.

The bad news is that it can be difficult to find a willing partner, let alone one to actually enjoys being on the receiving end.

Great news! Both our male and female dolls are functional in this way. Our product engineers I have worked hard to design the dolls so that you get a realistic, super tight, intense experience that is guaranteed to blow your mind.


anal sex with sex dolls FairDolls

2.4 Oral Sex with Your Doll

A sex doll blow job is pretty damn fun. Think of it like this. When the manufacturer creates a sex doll, the mouth only has to do two things. It has to look nice and it has to provide pleasure. You'll need Lube of course but you'll never have to worry about your dolls gag reflex whether she gets a stiff neck, or how she'll react when you finish.


3. The Basic Process of Fucking a Sex Doll

The basic process of fucking a sex doll should, more or less, involve the following steps:

1). You become horny and lustful, and blood is rushing into your head (and penis). Oh, damn… but then you realize Stacy from work is still not ready to open her vaginal doors to you. That’s right… it’s time to bring out the doll!



2). Take out your doll from wherever it is stored and throw it in the bed. Or, if it’s a silicone sex doll, you could even throw it in a hot bath for a wet sex session. Having the hot bath fuck sessions as a possibility is one of the major advantages of silicone-based sex dolls.


3). Position the doll in any way you want (all high-quality sex dolls have skeletons inside of them, so they stay in a position very easily). The possibilities are endless…(Read further for sex positions)


4). Take out your lube, and apply it generously both on yourself (well, mostly your penis) and the doll (again, mostly in the vagina, unless you are in the mood for a good blowjob from your doll).

5). You’re all set! Choose a hole and start having sex with your doll. All men have a natural instinct on how to fuck women, and this definitely carries over to sex dolls as well.

6). Don’t just fuck the sex doll, have sex with her! Caress her, kiss her, grab her tits… She may not have any nerves which you can stimulate, but it’s still a fantastic feeling to grab a woman’s tits as you are pounding her.


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7). I know it’s difficult to stop when you’re in the heat of the moment, but try different positions during one session. Start with some doggy, then expand into a little cowgirl mode, and… finish off with a throat fuck.

Changing positions makes sex with a doll feel much more realistic, and also more exciting. Don’t be afraid to explore new options.


8). After you have finished and took some time to cool off, it’s time to clean the sex doll. As for how to clean a sex doll, we have put together a fantastic guide to cleaning sex dolls here, so I recommend you check it out. (How To Care Your Sex Doll - Everything You Need to Know)

In order to get the most years out of your doll, you need to take care of it properly, and cleaning the doll after each use is THE most crucial aspect of the caring process.

4. Pro Tips

4.1 Lubricants

Never have sex with your sex doll without plenty of lubricants (if your doll is made of silicone, do remember to use only silicone-safe, synthetic-safe lubricant).

It isn’t comfortable to have sex with your doll “dry,” without lubricant, and you won’t enjoy the experience. Perhaps more importantly, however, using your sex doll without lubricant could damage her synthetic flesh. Over time, that could lead to a shorter useful life for your sex doll.

To keep your sex doll in the best shape possible, and to have the most fun and the best simulated sexual experience with her, always be generous with the lubricant.

Most people make the choice to use a lubricant so that their sexual experiences are easy and pleasurable. If you do this, always choose a water-based lubricant. Oil-based or silicone-based lubricants can damage your dolls, and cause staining.

Apply lubricant any place that you intend to penetrate. Just don't go overboard. If you attempt to use too many things will get sticky and messy quickly.

Here is a bit of a sex doll life Pro tip. If you think you need a bit more lubrication, try adding just a tiny amount of warm water instead. This can reactivate the lubricant and is often all you need to continue with your experience.

There are some people who prefer to take a dryer approach. For this purpose, they often use powder. This reduces friction but creates a very different sexual.



4.2 Perfumes and colognes

It's perfectly normal to want your doll to smell great during sex. The smell of an amazing cologne or perfume can trigger some intense memories and make sex amazing. We don't want to stop anybody from enjoying this experience.

However, we also want you to avoid causing any unintentional damage. If you must use perfume or cologne, spray the dolls clothing rather than the doll itself. Fragrances are usually alcohol-based and are not good for silicone or TPE. The scent could also seep into the doll’s material and then turn. That would not be pleasant for anyone.



4.3 Make Your Sex Doll Pretty

Dressing your sex doll in lingerie is one of the things that makes her so much fun. Keep in mind when you pick out her sexy outfits, however, that some fabrics have dyes in them that can stain the doll. Always be careful when choosing clothes for your doll so that you do not leave marks or dye on her synthetic skin. When putting on her clothes, or taking them off, always be gentle with her.

4.4 Be Gentle

Don’t scrub at her vigorously during the cleanup and do not go violent when you are having sex with her, as this might rough up the synthetic flesh. Remember, sex doll could be fragile, but neither should be roughed up or exposed to high heat.

4.5 Watch Some Hot Porn Videos While Having Sex with Your Sex Doll

You can watch some hot porn videos while having sex with your sex doll and fuck her in the same positions as the couple in the video. So while the couple is using a doggie position, roll your sex doll over on the bed and bend her and just enter from behind. This can make things a whole lot sexier and we bet you’ll ejaculate in minutes!


4.6 Pose Your Doll Right

When you pose your sex doll, keep in mind that it’s not good for her internal skeleton to keep her contorted in strange positions for long periods of time.

When you’re done using her, lay her out in a more natural position for long-term storage until the next time you get the urge to use her for sex. That way, she’ll be ready and waiting to go.

We want your sex doll to give you a long, useful life. It’s an investment in your sexual pleasure in which we wholeheartedly believe.

5. Best Sex Positions Which Will Leave You Breathless

Sex with a doll, even if she is anatomically perfect of a real person, it is a learning process if you are a first-timer. The doll does not have muscles to help you out or move with you, but she can obtain any pose a real woman can.

The biggest thing to learn about having sex with sex dolls is it takes time, understanding, and knowledge on your part to get the optimum enjoyment out of your sexual time with your doll.

The biggest factor is the weight of the doll and your personal strength. What sex position you can do with one doll is easy, the next impossible, it all boils down to the weight of the doll you choose. There is saying gamblers use, know your limits and play within it . . . Sorry but it applies.

The most popular question when it pertains to having sex with dolls is,

What positions can they do?

They can do any position a real gal can do! But I recommend you do it on a bed, sofa, or table as its easier to move them around into different positions. Some standing sex positions with your doll are difficult. Possible, but difficult. As the doll's feet are not that stable for moving them around sexually. Only sex dolls with "stiff joints" will be able to hold the majority of sex positions.


Here are 7 breathtaking sex positions you can try with your doll to have more pleasurable sex.

5.1 Missionary Position

The most popular sex positions for all, but if you do that, please make sure you do it on a bed, sofa, or table. You can do it either standing beside the bed or in bed on top of her. Only practice will teach you to find that right angle of her pelvis, how far forward to bend her legs, or how wide to spread her legs. Once you find that sweet spot, it's great.

PRE STEPS: With the doll on her back, bend her legs up and forward and tip her pelvis up a bit if need be to get access to the vagina. Place arms at the side to stabilize the doll.


Missionary Position5.2 Doggy Style Position

This position is easy to do. Your doll is on her hands and knees. Do the PRE STEPS to prop her into that position, and adjust as you need to. It's inviting and offers you an amazing experience! Remember, don't put your weight on top of her, her arms and hips are not designed to carry more weight than her own.

PRE STEPS: With the doll on her back bend her legs, knees, and arms into the position for doggy style, and lift her straight up and place her in the middle of the bed. Enough said, the rest you can figure out.


Doggy Style Position

5.3 Girl On Top (aka Cowgirl, a Sex Doll Ranch girls specialty) 

A fun position, but you need to be strong enough to pump her and get her jumping up and down off your body. The feeling when you fully thrust up into her is amazing!

PRE STEPS: With doll on her back, bend her legs and hips to the position she would be in on top of you. You can insert yourself in her and pick her up and turn around and lay back on the bed and she falls into position on top of you. Your feet dangle off the edge of the bed.


Girl On Top (aka Cowgirl, a Sex Doll Ranch girls specialty)5.4 Bent Over

This sex position is a really popular one that has been used by couples over many years. In this position, you make your sex doll stand in an inviting way and enter her from behind. The bent over position can be really sexy and provide for anal or vaginal penetration or both.

You can also make the sex doll wear a pair of sexy high heels to add extra hotness, and to make her stand in a flat but sexy way - pushing out her butt. This position can increase your fun, even more, depending on the object you use to bend over. Try couches, beds, chairs, pillows. Make sure nothing abrasive to protect your doll's soft silicone or TPE skin.

PRE STEPS: Hold the sex doll from the back and stand near a bed or a table. Bend the sex doll over the surface of the table or bed but still standing, and the bend should be at the waist.


Bent Over

5.5 Sex Against The Wall

If you’re one of the men who love their partners to stand against the wall and enter them from behind, you can use this position with your sex doll too. The corner of the room would work as the best place because the walls would provide the necessary support to make her stand straight. It’s ideal for sex in kinky places like the shower, balconies, etc. It's also great for deep penetration!

PRE STEPS: Make her stand in the corner of the room, facing outwards, meaning her back should be towards you and you should be holding her from behind. Spread the arms of the doll against the wall to maintain the balance of her body. Lift one of her legs up and you’re all ready to go deep inside her.


Sex Against The Wall

5.6 Spooning

Spooning is the most intimate sex position of all time. If you want to have sex with your doll while lying on the bed or if you’re looking for a more intimate position, the spooning position can work very well for you and your sex doll.

The spooning position provides for the hottest and smoothest penetration. It’s ideal for heavier sex dolls as you don't need to carry them around in awkward positions. It’s great for body heat. Because you are so close to your doll, your body heat heats her up and makes sex feel even more real.

PRE STEPS: Make the doll lie on her side with her arms bent in front, as she is your little spoon. Bend her legs at an angle of forty-five degrees to support her body. Lift her upper leg and go inside from any of the orifices you want to.



5.7 Two Most Common Oral Doll Sex Positions

1) Stand and Blow: With your doll on her knees in front of you. Pre-pose your doll on her back on a bed, position her legs as such so she is kneeling and back straight. Lift her up onto a soft foam pad on the floor. Enjoy!

2) Game On: Lay the doll on the bed or sofa on her belly and bend her waist and neck as such so you can slide underneath her so her head is on your lap, the rest is history.


Stand and Blow


6. Final Thoughts

Your options are only as limited as your imagination. Keep an open mind and treat her well, and your sex doll will reward you with intense, stimulating orgasms for years to come.

(sex position image source: sexualpositionsfree.com)

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